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Straight answers for a parent of a child who is hard work.

The questions that get asked at ten at night, answered properly. No product pitch dressed up as an article.

9 answers. One block each. Like everything else here, this only ever grows.

When the chart stops working1 Taking things away1 Saying it right1 The hard days2 What actually motivates2 Setting it up2
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You cannot punish a child into being different.

Every answer below comes out of that one sentence. The eleven rules underneath it, and the thing in the code that makes each one true.

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When the chart stops working1

Taking things away1

Saying it right1

The hard days2

What actually motivates2

Setting it up2

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